How to Give a Mind-Shattering Blow Job

Mastering the ability to give a mind-shattering blow job is a skill that requires first-hand knowledge, experience and practice, lots of it. Whatever role you play in bed - top, bottom, or versa, giving a good head is important in making sure the person you're having sex with has the time of his life. Done correctly, a good blowjob can even elevate the relationship from one-time, big-time sex orgy, into a regular sex buddy, or if you're lucky, a full-blown relationship.

Before you get too ahead of yourself and start thinking about long-term commitment, mastering the ancient art of blow job is easy if you start with the basics.

Take Control

The best blow job requires that you, the giver is comfortable in giving it in the first place. If you think you're not ready, or simply feel that you're not up to the dirty deed, then don't force yourself. The experience won't feel good and you'd end up disappointing yourself and the person you're giving the head to.

Blow jobs have to be exploratory, fun and enjoyable. If you really want master it, you have to take control. Do what you think feels good. Most guys would grab your head and push you down their dick so hard you'd gag and this is a no, no! Remove his hands off your head, look him in the eye and whisper "Stay still, I've got this."

Don't Rush

Nothing ruins the moment than a blow job that's done swiftly and unceremoniously. Once you go down on the guy, you have to commit yourself to it and this means you'd have to take it slowly but surely. Let your lips and tongue linger. Talk dirty if you have to and when you move to a different area of his tool, look at his face and see if he is enjoying it. If he doesn't look like he loves it, turn it up a notch and ask if there's anything he want you to do or a specific area he wants you to focus on.

Take it an inch at a time

The deeper, the better may be the case in porn, but not so in real life.  Forcing every single inch in takes the fun out of the moment. To simulate deep throating, you want to use some combination of your mouth, tongue and hands. Start with a tight grip on the base of his shaft and then wrap your mouth just a bit below the frenulum (the place where the head of the penis connects to the shaft) so your lips meet your fist, and move your mouth and hand in a rhythmic motion. Always let him know what you don’t like when you’re going down on him, whether it be holding your head or thrusting strongly.

Lick it Good

Licking his penis like you’re licking an ice cream cone is a guy-pleaser for a reason: Not only does a regular rhythm help get him even more worked up, but it gives you a chance to get into a groove. Creating a steady rhythm to build and sustain excitement. 

Break for intermission

If your mouth or jaw is feeling achy, take a few moments to kiss or caress his thighs or slurp on his balls.  Continue manual stimulation by running your hand up and down his shaft while exploring the rest of his family jewel. This will give your jaw a rest and gives you a chance to check in with your partner and see how you’re both doing.

Go for the Grand Finale

Cap off your performance and give him an experience he’ll never forget by lightly tugging on his testicles right before he’s about to climax. The skin here super-thin and packed with nerve endings, enough to send shivers down his spine and a message to his brain that will push him to the edge of ecstasy.  

Now, as previously mentioned, you won't get everything right the first time so practice, practice, practice so the next time you get invited to one of our O parties, you will be the one hot guys will line up for a good blow. Best of luck!